We hear, but we do not listen. We look, but we do not see.

Many differences in our lives can cause the bond of relationships to break or get weak. We get so preoccupied in ourselves and obsessed with our own thoughts that we create a mirror in front of us, a mirror that only shows us our own reflection. It becomes an obstacle in front of us that does not allow us to see and understand the reality that lies beyond that mirror.

This mirror could be in the form of our lack of judgment, ego, narrow-mindedness, doubts, arrogance, stereotypes, and prejudices. We forget that every individual is different, and it is not necessary that you see your reflection on the other side of the mirror as well. Our desire to be always right, acts as a blindfold in the relation, that does not allow to see anything beyond the mirror.

In some circumstances, the truth does not lie beyond the mirror either. Hence, in such situations the will to seek and understand the truth that lies somewhere in between is what matters. It is not necessary that the other person is always right, neither does it mean that you are right either. This is where understanding plays its role. You may understand what they are saying, but still disagree with it. So how did understanding help solve the problem? Did it not make it more complicated?

Well, it is not only in literal terms that you need to understand what the person is saying. Misunderstandings occur when we focus on the words rather than the speaker. You need to understand the reasons behind the arguments. You need to understand why this argument is taking place, rather than focusing on what the argument is and trying to prove yourself right. Because, only then you will be able to see beyond the mirror, rather than continue being obsessed with your own reflection.

There comes a time in some relations, especially in those you have great expectations from, that you simply cannot continue expecting anything more. Either the expectations have reached its limit, or one simply does not have the will or courage to be able to embrace 'hurt' in the relationship anymore. That is when indifference creeps in.

Indifference can kill a relationship. But for some, indifference is the only solution. It kills every expectation in the relationship and all the arguments come to a halt, because you simply learn to live for yourself. You stop expecting anything at all and you stop caring about everyone else. However, it does not mean that there is no love or trust in the relationship anymore. But, the issues are much complex and complicated than simple expressions can convey. The hurt is much deeper. The wound, perhaps permanent.

There is a vacuum, an illusion that you have created for yourself, a space between you and everyone else.

Relationships help us grow as a person, and teach us lessons about life in ways that would be difficult to comprehend otherwise. Taking out time for each other, setting priorities, compromises, sacrifices and selflessness to do something for them. Indifference shuts off these qualities, or at least some of it. Shuts off growth. Shuts off communication. And shuts off life.

When you find two aged people talking in a public place in Karachi trust me either they are discussing politics or the current circumstances which are people facing in the city and if you are bound to listen to their pointless conversation it definitely turn you into a psycho.

I don’t know why people are so pessimistic about our city; life is so valuable here if you don’t agree with the last part I mentioned then take a stroll outside at night with your cell phone. I will suggest you to keep an expensive one as snatchers are very heartily & sometimes they might often return it back.

Nowadays situations are quite better but every now and then there is a wild and furious counterstrike match between the casts based in different neighborhoods in which many precious lives are wasted. Karachi is a big city containing populations of different communities from all over Pakistan. These communities fight mainly due to the conspiracies between sects and casts.

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